We are the male/female of a poly couple. We are fit, playful, attractive, funny, educated and extremely sexual and sensual. We love to fantasize and are dying to make our fantasies a reality. We have had some group stuff in our poly situation and individually had some one off Mfm or ffm or a foursome but we are ready to explore together. We love going out, dancing into the morning but we also can’t get enough of spending the night in a hotel and playing some adult games with a late checkout. We would want to take it slow and right now a soft swap same room scenario turns us on. But we are pretty spontaneous and if the vibe is there anything is possible. We are both COViD vaxed and STD free

My Ideal Person We are looking for a couple with similar interests who can carry on a conversation about any topic, make us laugh at any occasion, and be willing to have fun no matter what. Must be respectful and not cocky, pushy and arrogant.
We are not really looking for anyone to add to our poly but we do need to have a true personal connection to go all in. In other words - we have to think you are smoking hot on the outside…and inside!
Speaking of the outside- not to be superficial but…yeah, we are definitely looking for a couple that turns our heads. We are so attracted to each other and want to make sure we can give that same attention to you.
1. In shape (like for real). Don’t have to be CrossFit fanatics or anything- I mean if you were you wouldn’t have time to be on here, but looking for a couple who cares about how they look…ok that sounds bad. We mean people who take care of themselves.
2. Not into 80’s bush or a year around sweater. You must at the very least be trim or even better- be like one of those hairless cats…forget it, those things are creepy. Very Trim or shaved please.
3. 30’s/40’s. If 50’s look 40’s then possible- If late 20’s likes mid 40’s then super possible (that sounded as creepy as the hairless cat). Around our age or younger is desired.
4. Your female must be bi. Prefer if she is dialed in with the entire girl/girl scene. Our girl has had a girl relationship before so would like another girl that knows what she’s doing in that department.
5. Don’t want a male thats gonna freak out like in the 80s jock movies when some accidentally or “in the moment” body touching occurs. We hope at some point to be laying in the king bed, all of us naked, rolling around. Down the line when we like you a lot and you like us- we wanna try some porn shit like DP, double blowjobs, donkey shows (100% kidding about that - nasty)!!! But yeah- we wanna try lots of different positions and we don’t want to be afraid of getting punched in the face and called names if we bump into each other.
6. We are looking to have fun. Having two wives and two husbands is enough. Not looking to add to our poly. So just being upfront…fun dinners, Kareoke or dancing, adult games, nice hotels, drinking or whatever is what we are looking for. We just want to have a blast and an experience that stays with us until we can to it all over again with you.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Role Playing, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Blindfolds

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Ability to be discreet, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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