It is what it is, simply looking for a playmate that is looking for a friend but not the attachment or complications of a serious relationship.Looking for someone to go out with, do cool stuff with ( the dinner , movie, and dance thing) The phrase, Friend with benefits is often used as a generic term for any kind of hookup, probably not a more misunderstood and misused statement on this site! I'm not looking for a one time hookup, friends first, the go from there. I believe that you can casually date a good friend and have great sex at the same time.This site is completely full of fakes and players but hopefully there are some sincere people here also. Looking for someone who actually understands what a friend with benefits should be. Please attach a photo of you don't have one, I understand discretion but I do want to know what you look like. As for me, college educated, actually look like my pictures, sincere, fun, high sex drive, available varies but I'm very flexible I'm financial secure. Looking for someone who understands we're not bad people for being here and will actually meet me for coffee so we can see if we're compatible. If you're looking for the same let's chat!