I'm an easy-going, intelligent, sensual guy who can just as easily stroke your hair and tell you stories as I can tear your clothes off and give it to you. My refined side: I work on legal issues with disadvantaged immigrants. I like to read literature and write poetry. I craft fancy cocktails for my guests. I like to hike and spend time near the water. I can be a bit of a philosopher if given the right stimulation. My wild side: I was in a metal band in the past - still love the sounds of hard rock pumping through my ears. Regarding sex, I like slow, sensual buildups with a lot of foreplay (I'm told I'm a great kisser), slow unzipping, and sliding off our clothes - to a fast, panting, sweating, hair-pulling finish as we wrap ourselves around each other. Sounds fun, right?

My Ideal Person I like sweet but secretly freaky ladies. You shouldn't be afraid of a man taking good care of you, even if this is short-term or no strings. I'm a nice guy, so I'd like the same from you. But don't be afraid to get dirty.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed, The beach, The middle of a park, A remote wilderness spot, The library

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Light Bondage, Role Playing, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Sexual appetite, A little of each

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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